Let's just say that lately I've been doing a lot of standing back and thinking, "Holy s*it!" I could make all sorts of trite statements about how quickly the time goes and how much my child blows me away, but holy s*it, none of that does it justice! Ahem, pardon my language. I'll just record, to the best of my ability, a few scenarios from the past week.
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Annabelle has never been bothered by the dark, so we leave the lights out in rooms we're not using. Yesterday she went into her room after sundown and from the kitchen I heard her calling out, so I went back to hear her clearly requesting, "yight, yight, yight!"
Suddenly I'm realizing that she can easily ask for about anything she needs: sleep, shirt, pee, car, cashews, hug, draw, pour, [play] dough, help, bath, book, slide, walk... her repertoire is constantly expanding, and I love to see her delight when she realizes for the first time that she can communicate something.
At dinner, Annabelle asked for something or another. Probably water. I repeated her question with the addition of the word, and sign for, "please" before bringing the thing that she asked for and modeling the sign for "thank you." I have been incredibly lousy as remembering to use these signs previously, but recently I realized it was about time. Not a minute later, Annabelle was saying and signing, "please" for her own amusement. Within a day and a half, she has started regularly signing and saying both please and thank you without a bit of prompting.
I have been making a point of always asking, "Would you like me to help you [put on your shirt/find your shoes/etc], or would you like to do it yourself?" The answer is always that she would like to do it herself, and off she goes to do just that!
Today I attempted to convince the girl of the importance of wearing clothing - at least underwear - after she saw through the difficult removal of her own shorts with no help whatsoever. She had no interest whatsoever. She protested so strongly, in fact, that I decided nudity was clearly more important to her than clothing was to me, so I deferred to her. Thirty minutes or so later, she found a pair of shorts, looked in my direction, and said, "help, please!"
There is seriously no baby left!
How have your children surprised you this week? What's new in your house?
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Because I blog for many reasons, one of which has to do with keeping geographically distant friends and family (and my future self) up to date on the latest happenings with the girl, I started doing "What's New Wednesday" to make sure I fit in once weekly Annabelle updates. Because Wordless Wednesday is so popular, I haven't bothered to offer a linkup since most of you are pretty busy, but I may as well ask: any interest in a linkup? I'm always thrilled when you all share tidbits from life with your children and I'd be honored as honored can be if you wanted to do it on the regular!
Hi Melissa,
ReplyDeleteI am so thrilled to have found your blog. I think our girls were born on the same day and I'm a first-time mother too. I was searching the blogosphere for montessori ideas as I just love the philosophy the more I read about it. Your blog is absolutely right up my street.
Crikey your little girl sounds so grown up. She is a credit to you.
Looking forward to reading your older posts.
Best wishes
Rachel
PS Any tips on learning to use the potty? Seriously trying this week now but she prefers her duplo to sitting on the throne....
The answer is always is always WHAT? You left us hangin' honey! And I love the idea of your weekly updates. Not just for distant family, but also for reference in years down the road.
ReplyDeleteNew in my house... Sasha has started walking to her own potty to poop. Pretty big news in my book!
Thanks, Jorje! That is HUGE news. The independence is astounding sometimes!
ReplyDeleteRachel, I am so glad you found us and took the time to say hello! I am about to go have a good look at your blog and get to know a bit more about you and your girl. It sounds like she and Annabelle, and you and I, have a lot in common!
ReplyDeleteSince Annabelle started out with elimination communication early on, I'm not terribly experienced with potty training in the more traditional sense, but I've been mulling over a post that pulls together ideas from what we do (elimination communication), and what is done in a lot of Montessori Young Children's Communities. You have given me some inspiration, so hopefully I can wrap that up in the next few days and it's helpful to you.
I just found your blog through Twitter. I love the idea of what's up wednesday! I usually do monthly letters, but I know this is going to be a busy year for me - weekly 'what's ups' sounds much more doable.
ReplyDeleteLike!! So cute! They grow up at zoom speed =)
ReplyDeleteHa. I have not been firing on all cylinders this week - to say the least! The husband just pointed out what your first sentence was all about. Sheesh! The answer is always that she would like to do it herself ;) The one day I decide not to proofread my post one final time! Thanks for catching me, lady!
ReplyDeleteSounds great Melissa! Oh there's not much on my blog. I'm a procrastinator supremo and a bit of a luddite but I have plans to keep it up more regularly. It does seem like we've lots in common though, like vegetarianism, similar parenting philosophies, real nappiesm love of music etc.
ReplyDeleteI gave ecing a try in the early days, but it fell by the wayside.
Senior school is new in our house and my big girl is now something different. I haven't put my finger on it yet. It is good so far. It is something to do with maturity and broader horizons. I think!! I'll let you know!
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