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Aug 16, 2011

Transforming Reactions into Responses

"While the words [react and respond] are listed as synonyms, looking closely reveals subtle, but important differences. When we react, we take some action, usually one that is intended to counter the thing that we’re reacting to. We may react to yelling by yelling back, or react to change with attempts to stop what is happening. When we respond, we acknowledge what we see and give an answer, but do not necessarily feel a need to counter what we’re responding to."


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4 comments:

  1. hmnn, thought-provoking. thanks, Melissa...I'll make the jump!

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  2. fantastic. I find myself trying desperately to get this one right. I often yell back when I *know* it would be better for all if I could stop, breathe and respond. Thanks for the reminder!

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